Healing Couples Relationships
You are starting to feel like the two of you are speaking different languages. The list of resentments and discontent is so long, and yet it is there in every fight, every disagreement you have. You cannot remember the last time you laughed together, when the warm fuzzy playfulness was in the space you shared. Now, you are realizing you are speaking less and less as arguments seem to be the only communication that you have any more. You both feel blamed and you both have no idea what to do to make it better.
It hurts so much to be together, but you cannot imagine a life apart.
All the roles outside of lovers and friends have come into the space between the two of you, and you can’t find the way back. Your fights are full of the vitriol of all the wrongs that have happened across the entirety of your relationship (how many times have you hashed that incident that happened years ago?). These fights are never resolved and you are so tired of feeling always in the wrong and like you can do nothing right.
Hope for the future and happiness is feeling so low...
My name is Meaghan and I help couples in Windsor, CA who are losing hope and are looking for a solution to reconnect and find the healthy relationship that is lost below all the negativity. I help to re-enliven the excitement that brought the two of you together before all the other noise came between you. I work with you to build communication strategies and ways to reduce the fighting so that the sense of always being wrong and feeling on guard diminishes. I help you to regain (or potentially gain for the first time) the sense of being on the same team and supporting each other through life’s challenges. I know that when the two of you are feeling back in harmony, it makes all the challenges so much easier to face. The work we do together will look different than what you would think of a couples therapist in Sonoma County, as I work from Stan Tatkin’s PACT. From understanding how attachment effects conflict in relationship to experientials that are used to shift emotional states and experience, our work together will have the intent of building a strong relationship.
If you are ready to find the connection that was lost between you and your partner and put down the weapons you have been honing against each other for years, contact me for a free consultation, 707.593.6333, in Windsor, California. Find out what it is like when you find the way to speak to each other that brings you close together, creating an invitation for the lovers and friends you use to be.